Do You Need Self-help Books?

September 6, 2014

You are essentially who you create yourself to be and all that occurs in your life is the result of your own making.”
Stephen Richards, Think Your way to Success: Let Your Dreams Run Free

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Michael Wilkovesky

How many self-help books do you have sitting on your shelf right now? Why do you have all of those books? Do you feel that you need to become a better person and you hope that the books written by someone who doesn’t know you will help you to change. There is a difference between self-help books and helping your self to live a happier and better life. The big difference is the money you will save by not having to buy the books.

Self-help books have been around since man realized that he could be better and someone else decided that they could help them by writing a book. These books have been able to help some people, but if they helped everyone why would there be so many books being written? If they worked, then you would only need to buy one book and that would be the end. Really, the answer to live better isn’t going to be found in any book.

If you really want to lead a better life, you must take action and do something. Reading a book is not going to help. Books are great forms of entertainment, learning and relaxation but for life changes they are useless. Instead of buying countless books, focus on the things you need to do to make yourself happier.

If you are stressed from your job and can’t sleep, then the best advice is to find another job. You say the jobs are scarce because the economy is bad and you don’t want a low paying service job. So, start your own business using the talents you have. Put the passion you have to work for you. Many people when they were children had big dreams about what they would do when they grew up. What happened to those big dreams? For many they just disappeared.

The experiences you have make up life. If your experiences are all bad, then your life will be unhappy and filled with lots of negativity. Find out what you love in life and search it out. Change your life around by using the passion you have to make yourself happy. Move any obstacles out of your way, don’t let them stop you. Get up, change your life and make it one of success.

Conflict is the beginning of consciousness.” – M. Esther Harding

Setbacks are a part of life, we suffer them and sometimes we do not recover from them.

The article below gives some techniques on staying focused when you encounter a setback in your life.

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Michael is a certified Life Optimization coach as well as a Law of Attraction and Law of Attraction Wealth coach.

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Michael Wilkovesky

Staying Focused and Handling Setbacks – by Richard Rowson

Many people have experienced failures, setbacks and negative experiences in all aspects of life. But learning how to overcome these challenges and staying focused on your goals is what will lead us to success. The road to success is often bumpy, so here are a few personal coaching steps and tips to keep you moving forward and focused.

Obviously it is very important to think positively and keep your purpose clearly in front of you. Many people find that writing down their goals and placing them somewhere where they can see them incredibly helpful. If you can revisit your goals and dreams with ease, then many setbacks will often see tiny in comparison.

Another great technique to stay focused and handling any setbacks is to plan in advance and try to establish obstacles and challenges that can hinder your progress in life. If you have some clear ideas of how to overcome challenges that may arise, then you will be able to manage them when they do appear.

This next tip can sometimes seem quite extreme. To stay focused and to remain moving forward in a positive direction, try to avoid people who have a negative impact on your life. Instead try to surround yourself with encouraging and inspirational people. This also applies to all forms of media you watch, read and listen to. Are you reading inspirational books? Are you listening to uplifting music? Are you socialising with like-minded, successful people? Think about this and make the right changes for you.

Finally it is important to accept, analyse and learn from any mistakes you make. By doing this you are constantly growing, learning and heading in a positive direction. To give you an example, think of Thomas Edison – on his journey to successfully invented the lightbulb, he allegedly failed 8000 times.

His attitude? He was 8000 steps closer to succeeding! Do you have the Edison spirit?

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It is jam packed with life changing strategies and tips.

Law of Attraction Coaching

December 15, 2013

We know that the Law of Attraction is working all of the time, but many people don’t seem to be able to take advantage of this powerful Universal Law. Why?

Many people think that the Law of Attraction is more mystical than real. They may have tried to manifest something once or twice and failed so they claim that the Law of Attraction is not real.

If they understood the relationship between the conscious mind, the unconscious mind and the Universe, they would understand that the Law of Attraction is working all of the time. It is their thoughts that have caused the Law of Attraction to “fail”. In actual fact the Law of Attraction was working perfectly. You need to focus and adjust your thoughts in order to take complete advantage of the Law of Attraction.

As a certified Law of Attraction and Law of Attraction Wealth coach, I understand the problems that many people have in believing the law of Attraction.

If you want to learn more about the Law of Attraction and what you can do to make the Law of Attraction work for you, contact me to arrange a telephone meeting.

Michael Wilkovesky

Certified Law of Attraction coach

Contact me at: wilkovesky@gmail.com

 

Success Coaches

March 23, 2013

Two popular success coaches

Two of the more popular success coaches are Brian Tracy and Jim Rohn.

Brian is still passing on his knowledge and information on how to become successful through books, and videos.

Unfortunately Jim Rohn is no longer alive, but his success as a mentor/coach will ensure that his material and videos are read and viewed by many more people.

Why use a coach?

Many people who want to become successful in their lives and business try to do it by themselves. While some do succeed many fail, usually when they are on the verge of success. They could fail for many reasons, lack of funds, natural causes or just lack of awareness of their own capabilities.

Having someone to guide them, either through seminars or training videos or books, may help those people to succeed .

Good luck in your pursuit of success.

Michael Wilkovesky

Our purpose

Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it, begin it now.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

We want to improve everyone’s life.

This includes everyone’s personal and business lives. We believe that education on how the mind works and on how people can put things into place through an understanding of these principles will improve everyone’s life.

We will post reviews of books, many of them are old, in that they were written in the early 1900’s, but you will find that many of today’s so called “gurus” us the same material but just made a little bit more fancy and updated.

We will give you links to these and many other books, some of these books are free while some you may have to pay for. Becoming successful and improving your life sometimes means that you must spend money to make money. We use the area of making money and becoming rich here as that is what many people think about when they consider, if they consider, improving their lives.

We will also have links to programs that you may be interested in. Some of these programs are from well known success coaches while others may be from lesser known people and areas. You should be aware that we do get compensated if you buy these programs or books.

Our main goal is education. We believe that education is necessary for improvement. We believe that there are many ways to become educated. Reading and listening to good programs is one way. These actions elevate your thinking which will in turn improve your life.

Best of luck

Michael Wilkovesky